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65 Months to FI!

When Opportunity Doesn't Arrive on Your Schedule

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The Best Opportunities Aren’t Always Planned

How an unexpected series of tenant move-outs accelerated our path toward the life we want

65 Months to FI! 🎉 

Five months ago, we shared that we had made the difficult decision to begin winding down our rental real estate portfolio. Our plan was simple. As long-term tenants eventually moved out, we’d sell each property instead of finding new renters. There was no rush. We expected the transition to take years. Life had other plans.

Within just a few months, multiple long-term tenants gave notice.

Instead of selling one property, we sold three.

It wasn’t something we had predicted, but once the opportunity presented itself, we realized it aligned perfectly with the direction we had already decided to take. That doesn’t mean it was easy. Selling three properties in one year created entirely new questions. We suddenly found ourselves thinking through capital gains, depreciation recapture, reinvestment options, asset allocation, and how to thoughtfully deploy a much larger amount of cash than we’d expected to have all at once.

Good problems are still problems to solve.

But alongside those decisions came something even more valuable. Every property we sold meant fewer maintenance calls. Fewer lease renewals. Fewer unexpected repairs. Less mental overhead. More margin.

We’re discovering that preparing for Financial Independence isn’t only about building wealth. It’s also about gradually letting go of responsibilities that no longer fit the life you’re designing. One lesson keeps standing out to me. You can’t predict every opportunity. But you can build a financial life and mental framework that’s flexible enough to take advantage of one when it arrives.

If we had been emotionally attached to the original timeline, we might have tried to force things back to “the plan.” Instead, we recognized that the unexpected was actually helping us move toward our long-term vision. Sometimes progress arrives disguised as a gut punch surprise.

Actionable Tip: Practice Looking for the Opportunity

When something unexpected happens this month, pause before immediately deciding whether it’s good or bad.

Ask yourself:

  • Is there an opportunity hidden in this situation?
  • Does this move me closer to the life I’m trying to build?
  • What new possibilities does this create?

Not every surprise will be an opportunity. Some will simply be challenges to navigate. But staying open allows you to recognize the moments when life gives you an unexpected nudge in the direction you were already hoping to go.

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Surprising Wealth: More Than Just Numbers

At Surprising Wealth, our goal has always been to share our story, tips, and strategies to help others, especially those with lower to median incomes, build wealth and create a life they love. But it’s not just about money. It’s about what that money represents: freedom, choice, and control over your life.

As we continue our countdown to FI, we’re reminded that the journey itself is full of surprising moments of growth and opportunity. FI is about much more than just retiring early, it’s about having the financial and emotional space to live fully along the way.

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A Bit About Us

Our journey began with humble beginnings. We’ve navigated through the challenges of creating a life and a living we love, while earing low to median incomes. What started as a modest dream of being able to retire someday has turned into a concrete plan. We've been on the SlowFI path, consistently saving and investing for 20+ years. Our income over time has stayed roughly in the 50th percentile, so we are truely everyday Americans. We've achieved remarkable results through living below our means and consistently investing the difference. Now in our mid-40s, we are in the top 20% for U.S. household wealth for our age group. This has been possible through conscious spending, consistent saving, strategic investing, and a commitment to lifestyle design where we spend generously on things that bring us value and contentment, while cuting back on things we are ambivalent about. It can be daunting when you hear the stories of tech workers or doctors or other people with large income shovels. We want to share how an everyday couple with median US income has built wealth for the future, while also creating a life we love today.

Why Financial Independence?

Financial Independence means having the freedom to make choices that aren’t dictated only by the need for a paycheck. It’s about gaining control over your time and energy, and being able to pursue what truly matters to you. For us, it’s about creating time for friend & family, travel, and the experiences that bring joy and fulfillment.

Join Us on the Journey

In January 2021, I ran some calculations, projected our investment growth, and analyzed our current spending levels. After adjusting our spending assumptions for future inflation, I realized we could replace our earned income (trading time for money) with investment income (our money making money for us) in approximately 10 years. With 90 months left to go, we’re solidly on that path and we want you to join us. Whether you're just starting out or well on your way to financial independence, Surprising Wealth is here to support and inspire you. Together, we can make every month count and turn dreams into reality.

Thank you for being a part of our community. Let's embark on this journey to financial independence together!

Disclaimer: All the tips and stories here are from my own journey toward financial independence. Remember, what worked for me might not work for everyone. This content is for informational purposes only and should not be considered as financial, legal, or tax advice. Always consult with a professional before making any significant financial decisions.

 

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